Many guys feel somewhat flustered and helpless when it comes to dating and attracting women. Often they don’t know what they should be doing or saying to attract the perfect woman for them. But there are ways to understand women better and hence be able to know what attracts or repels them. This will give many guys a much better sense of understanding. Let’s take a look at what some things women are looking for.
Women gauge a man by the level of his confidence. Women, you see, are very observant creatures. What’s that old clch about women being 10 times better at reading body language then men? So if you want to attract women, and especially that one perfect woman you will eventually meet, confidence is a must.
Speaking of confidence, some people may think that yeah but i don’t feel confident about anything right now. In that case, do you have a passion in your life? This is very important, if you do have a purpose in life and passionate about it, this will rub off into other areas of you life, including attracting women.
Instead of trying to fake confidence, it will flow naturally as a result of your life’s passion. So what is it in your life right now you are passionate about? (no flipping a burger at burger king does not count).
As you may already know, there’s the old saying that ‘nice guys finish last’. Well it isn’t far from the truth actually. Does that mean you should be the jerk? No. What i mean is that instead of being overly nice and polte to women, try to assert some authority by making decisions and opinions of your own.
Now, Im not saying you should go around ordering women around. But rather, take the lead when it comes to dating the woman you want. If you are on a date, don’t ask her where you two should eat. Instead, suggest a place and go from there. Remember, take the initiative. Women like it.
So there you have it, some quick tips on what women look for and ideas on how to cultivate these traits. I hope this article has been helpful for you.
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